Laura’s Dating Tips & Relationship Advice Blog

So many people doubt their ability to even plan a date, let alone muster the courage to ask someone out. Over the years we have curated valuable dating tips and advice that we want to share with you. We have many resources and experience honing in on the fundamental issues that make people uncomfortable with the whole dating process.

Our dating tips are derived through our own experiences as well as stories from bad date ‘survivors,’ these stories are sometimes shocking, other times hilarious, but we’ve been able to drill down to the root causes of issues facing everyone in the dating world, and are confident that our relationship advice can help you navigate the choppy waters of the dating pool.

Falling in love can make us feel very vulnerable, that feeling should NOT be made worse by feeling ill-prepared for the dating dance. Helping you find the right partner is what this blog is all about, I believe you will find the answers you’re looking for on these pages as well as the pages of my forthcoming book “Single in the City” due out February 7, 2017.  I also believe that there’s somebody out there for everyone, check in regularly for updates and more dating tips.

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Situationships and How to Get Out of Them

2020 is a weird time to be dating. We’re not just ”single” or “in a relationship;” we often have go-to hookup partners, maybe a friend with benefits, or most confusing of all, situationships.
Situationships are essentially the […]

By |August 27th, 2020|dating, Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Relationships|

New Relationships: How to Stop Sabotaging Them

New relationships are exciting!
We all know that familiar feeling of finally meeting someone great. You feel alive with possibility, with the knowledge that someone awesome likes you and wants to get to know you. In […]

How to Get Over Relationship FOMO

FOMO: a feeling of anxiety or insecurity over the possibility of missing out on something, as an event or an opportunity (via

FOMO, which is the acronym for the “Fear Of Missing Out,” can plague […]

By |July 2nd, 2020|Relationship Advice|

How to Date Safely as Economy Re-Opens | Singleinthecity

As regulations begin to relax, meeting up in person is finally an option, if executed safely. This is great news for those who are ready to move past video chat dating and start building an […]

By |June 16th, 2020|dating, Dating Advice|

Single in the City Launches Virtual Speed Dating Across Canada

Single in the City is now hosting Virtual Speed Dating Events across Canada
Life as we know it has shifted dramatically. As we all stay home to help curb the spread of COVID-19, many of us […]

By |May 6th, 2020|Dating Advice, Singles Events|

Polyamory in a Pandemic

For many people, monogamy is a way of life that does not fit into their personal beliefs or practices. These people engage in relationships and build romantic experiences with the idea that it is not […]

By |May 2nd, 2020|Relationship Advice|

Dating During The Coronavirus

Boy, we are going through some tough times. These are times where we may be feeling a lot of mixed emotions with what’s going on in the world right now. With the coronavirus and self […]

How To Successfully Slide Into Someone’s DM’s

Ever wonder why you send DM’s and get no response? Have you tried countless times to pick someone up this way and have yet to succeed? Well I have some tips that will help you […]

Pheromones: Love is in the Air

With Valentine’s Day coming up you may hear people saying “Love is in the Air” but it may have more to do with pheromones than it does love.
Pheromones can play a huge part in sexual […]

Dating Trends to Look Out for in 2020

As we enter 2020, it is a good time to reflect. This is the perfect time to look back at some of the dating trends we encountered and take a glimpse at what is to […]