While there are certain holidays that can really bring out affection for your partner, like Christmas, New Year’s Eve and Valentine’s Day, I think it’s so important to show your partner you care every day, no matter what the occasion is. Why wait all year to shower them with love on a certain day? Showing your affection and love brings you closer together and is a big part of a loving relationship. These are my three tips that will help you show your partner you care every day!

how to show your partner you care every day

How to show your partner you care daily

Learn your partner’s love language

Learning your partner’s love language is a great way to show your partner you care on a more personal level. The five love languages are:

Words of Affirmation: This is when you show affection through words to your partner. Compliment your partner and share what they mean to you.

Acts Of Service: This means doing little acts of service that shows you appreciate them. It can be simple things like picking up their favourite treat when you’re at the grocery store or bigger things like helping them with something around the house they’ve been wanting to do. This is a great way to show that you care.

Receiving Gifts: Showing your partner you care by gifting them tokens of appreciation, whether big or small, shows thoughtfulness.

Quality Time: Spending quality time together and giving your partner undivided attention shows that their presence is important in your life.

Physical Touch:  Touching your partner shows that you’re attracted to them and you enjoy being with them. Let them feel the love!

Create rituals through connection

Creating new rituals can be as simple as setting up a regular date night or a day you both go to the gym together. This shows your partner that you respect and value them and that you want to grow together. Set a regular ritual and stick with it – this is a great way to stay connected, even when you both get busy or have other factors coming into play!

Take Turns Being Each Other’s “Slave” For a Day

Want to get to know your partner a little bit more while showing that you care? Take turns letting the other one relax for a day while you handle things like walking the dog, cooking, giving them a massage, or any other little things that mean something to them. You’ll learn what your partner likes (and dislikes!), what turns each other on and how they enjoy spending time with you then most. You might learn something new!

Follow these tips to show your partner you care daily and strengthen your connection!


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