Breaking the Myth of Dating Out of Your League

Hello, my friends! In this blog I want to shed some light on a topic that is close to many of our hearts: Embracing Love and Overcoming the Fear of Dating Out of Your League. Now, I know that this is a subject that brings up a lot of emotions, fears, and insecurities. And that’s understandable because we’ve all been there. We’ve all felt that thrill of attraction towards someone who seems too good to be true, only to be followed by the doubt and the worry of not being good enough.

Why Dating Out of Your League is a Myth

Let me tell you something. The idea of someone being out of your league is nothing but a limiting belief, a mental roadblock that keeps you from experiencing the joy and the excitement of romance. There is no such thing as a person who is objectively too good for someone else. Every single one of us deserves to be loved and valued, no matter what we look like, what we do, or how much money we make.

Now, I understand that there might be some cases where the differences between two people might seem overwhelming. For example:

  • The person is a celebrity, and you’re just a regular person.
  • The person is a CEO, and you’re still figuring out your career path.
  • The person is a model, and you’re feeling self-conscious about your body.
  • The person is a genius, and you’re feeling intimidated by their intellect

Now, I know that some of you might be thinking, “But Laura, what if the person is really, really, really good-looking? Or successful? Or famous?” My answer is simple: so what? Beauty, wealth, and fame are not the only things that make someone attractive or desirable. Personality, character, humour, kindness, and empathy are the qualities that truly matter in a relationship. And let me tell you, they’re not rare. They’re not exclusive to a select few. They’re abundant and accessible to anyone who is willing to look for them. These differences do not define you, and they do not define the worth of your love. These are simply surface-level differences that can be overcome by the depth of your connection, the strength of your bond, and the power of your mutual respect and affection.

So, if you’re feeling discouraged by the idea of dating someone who you feel is out of your league, I want you to take a deep breath, and remember these words: You are worthy. You are deserving. You are enough.

And most importantly, remember that love is not a competition, love is not a meritocracy, love is not a zero-sum game. Love is a journey, a mystery, a celebration of two unique souls coming together to form a beautiful harmony.

So, go ahead, my friends. Take a chance on love. And remember, your league is the one you make for yourself.

Stay fabulous, stay confident, and always, always keep dating.

Laura xo


By sitcadmin | February 10, 2023
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