One of the best pieces of dating advice I can give when your dating life is not working for you is to change things up and try something new. If you want to increase your chances of finding love, there is no change in your dating life without action toward that change.

Try reflecting on the following questions when it comes to your current dating life:

• Does your dating life seem stagnant?
• Do you have a tendency to stay in the same social circle where meeting new people is few and far between?
• Do you have a pattern of dating the same type of person and it’s not working for you?
• Do you have a hard time getting out because of your work schedule?

If you answered, “yes” to just one of these questions, it may be time for a change in your dating life.

A lot of the time we stay in our same dating patterns because it feels weirdly comfortable, even if it’s visibly not working for us. Interesting enough, we then get frustrated when nothing changes and continue to date the perpetual bad boy or unavailable woman. How can you ever find love that way? It’s extremely difficult and an uphill battle.

The idea is to break the pattern and push through the fear of the unknown that comes with change. If your dating life is not working for you, it’s time to try something different. When you open yourself up to the possibility of love in whatever manner or platform it may come to you in, that is when love happens. When you release the control of how love is exactly going to come to you, that is when love happens. Love can come to you in any way, at any time, that is something no one can control. What we can control is our ability to be open and available to all forms that love may come to us.

Have you ever tried any dating services for professionals?

There are many dating services for professionals out there that can support you to facilitate change and increase your chances of meeting someone.

Below are 3 dating services for professionals that are available to support your journey to find love:

1. Speed Dating: Dating is a numbers game, the more dates you go on, the better chance of meeting someone. Speed dating events provide the perfect platform for you to meet quality, professional singles in a fun, fast and effective way. At a speed dating event you have the opportunity to meet 15-20 new potential matches in one night, with the worst-case scenario, going home with a new friend.
2. Matchmaking:  Hiring a matchmaker is an incredible way to take all of the “work” out of your dating life. Imagine having someone to sift through all those profiles for you based on your unique compatibility needs? Matchmaking services provide in person consultations, along with top calibre, personalized matches, at competitive low rates. Matchmaking is one of those dating services for professionals that maintain the old fashioned approach to finding love, where chemistry and compatibility are at the forefront.
3. Dating Coach: Work with a personalized dating coach. Sometimes all we need is a few “tweaks” in our dating approach to see major results. Date coaching is one of those dating services for professionals that provides an incredible opportunity to hone in on what has been holding you back from finding love. Date coaching also provides an incredible support platform for you when it comes to your everyday dating life. Is your date ignoring you? Did you just break up with your ex? These are some of the dating scenarios where date coaches are great people to align with in order to help you through these tough or ambiguous times. Dating coaches help to provide sound dating advice to orient any type of dating situation in support of you finding lasting love and partnership.

At the end of the day, at the risk of not finding love, what do you have to lose by trying a new way of approaching your dating life? Why not increase your chances of meeting someone? Worse case, you meet some great potential matches and have fun in the process!