Most, would be lying if they said looks don’t matter to some degree in a relationship. Now with that being said, “looks” to each individual are completely personal.
So, do looks matter in your dating life?
For some, they’re highly attracted to a hipster type of guy with a beard/scruff and glasses. For other’s, they’re more attracted to a guy that is clean-cut looking. Some men may be attracted to a model type look, while others may like a woman who has a bit more curve to her. Some may be more attracted to a more laid back style versus a more dressy look. Looks and attraction is all relative to the person.
On the other side, you may be surprised just how attractive someone can be once you get to know them. Knowing someone on a deeper, inner level can make that person even more attractive to you. In some cases, a date you may have overlooked to begin with, when given a chance, can be pleasantly surprising. That’s why it’s important to try dating different types of people and giving those first dates a chance before immediately dismissing them. In cases where nothing seems to be working in your dating life, dating someone outside your normal comfort zone can be enlightening.
What’s most important is how you feel about yourself. Someone who is not happy with themselves on the inside and out, tend to be the most critical of themselves and other’s in their lives.
Taking care of yourself and striving to be the best possible version of you is extremely important. When you feel confident in your own skin, that naturally emits an aura of beauty and confidence on the outside.
Finally, when you’re comfortable and confident in your own skin that is when you attract the best possible partner for you.
We want to hear from you, do looks matter in your dating life? Do looks matter particularly when choosing a date or a partner?